Listen or Discipline?
We all have that voice in our head. The one that tells us we can’t do it. The one that says we aren’t good enough. The one that makes us question our character and fear the uncertainty of the future. We all hear it. The voice may come in different tones and intensities, but it tends to have the same effect: it demands attention. And when we give it attention — even a little — it grows louder. It’s like a child throwing a tantrum. If a parent gives in every time the child crie
May 262 min read
Managing Expectations
Loud Noise We live in a world where expectations are placed on us by others in addition to the expectations we place on ourselves. Let’s be clear — expectations can be great. They help us remain diligent. They help us develop accountability. They help us reach our goals. And, they help us grow to maximize our potential as human beings. Expectations can be great — specifically when we place expectations on ourselves or the people we value place expectations on us. This is heal
Aug 9, 20243 min read
Competition: Part 2
Competition...Ugh. Pause. Think of your reaction to the word: Competition. How would you describe it? In my previous blog, I defined...
Jun 28, 20244 min read
Competition: Part 1
Compete or Beat? Competing is exhausting. No. It is exhilarating. Actually, it’s a combination of both tiring and thrilling. It’s like...
Jun 14, 20243 min read
Fear of Failure
The F-Word Failure. The most discouraging, uncomfortable and heartbreaking F-word. Failure. Failure means that you’ve lost, right? Or,...
May 31, 20244 min read
Transactional vs. Transformational
Relationship Development Transactional vs. Transformational leadership. Nowadays, this seems to be the hot topic in society. People...
May 21, 20245 min read
Coaching Like Carroll
The Cross-Town Rival Coach Pete Carroll. The legendary Coach Pete Carroll. He’s recognized as one of the most successful college football...
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